Childhood Aggression:
Where does it come from?
How can it be managed?
^hildren aren't born aggressive, they learn it. However, children, parents, and caregivers also
can learn how to cope with aggression. This guide answers some questions about aggression
and how to teach social coping skills to children.
ag-gression : e_'gre_shen, noun
1: a forceful action or procedure (such as an unprovoked attack), especially when intended
to dominate or master.
2: the practice of making attacks or encroachments, especially unprovoked violation by one
country of the territorial integrity of another.
3: hostile, injurious, or destructive behavior or outlook, especially when caused by
frustration.
Where does aggression
come from?
Do humans just have a fighting instinct? Is
aggression the outcome of frustration?
Most recent studies view aggressive acts
not as the sole fault of the individual, but
also as related to a set of cultural and social
circumstances.
What factors lead to
aggression?
The child
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A child's temperament and his/her learned
coping skills are critical to the youngster's
being able to manage aggression. State¬
ments such as "boys are supposed to act
out their anger" or "she is wild" are
common expressions that parents and
others use to refer to a child's
temperament.
Temperament is that part of the personality
that seems to be controlled by genetics.
There are basically three types of tempera¬
ment— easy or flexible (60 percent of
children), fearful and sensitive (25 percent of
children), and feisty or difficult (15 percent
of children).
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The family
The level of family stress and the positive
and negative interactions of the family
influence children learning aggression.
Children model their behavior after adults
around them, observing and imitating how
others handle their anger and frustration.
The community
Communities that understand and support
children's rights are communities that
support children and all their developmental
stages. Places where there are supportive
adults and healthy alternatives for recreation
can protect children while they are learning
to deal with many situations, including those
that give rise to aggression.
The environment
Some studies have found that housing, schools,
and neighborhoods can contribute to aggres¬
sion. For example, extreme heat or overcrowd¬
ing has been shown to increase aggression.
The culture
What sorts of models are children exposed
to on television and in the community?
When people try to solve problems with
physical violence, children mistakenly leam
that this is an appropriate behavior.